Naked Fingers –Put a RING on it ?

Usually people wears rings on their fingers to signify their marriage, but I have to wear it due to religious reasons, a diamond on a golden ring , first I was upset about it cause I would look married , how many people like to wear rings who are single and I have two a black one and a gold one , but somehow it seems a lot better than a naked hand, all that glitter and shine makes you see your hand again and again, even though I admit I have ugly shaped hands.

In terms of my progress due to the ring is zilch, nothing much has changed since I have worn it, no star opportunities, life is pretty much the same. Don't believe much will change in the future, but touching the ring in a public place gives myself a undivided attention that I feel people crave for people paying attention to detail. Seeing that diamond makes you feel you had a priceless diamond and life would be all fun and no work, but that is a thought everyone goes through for our own wonderful dreamland realizing how sad life really is..... :-)

HAPPY NEW YEAR -Bring on 2009 let go 2008

Yes this year the celebration was very constructive as compared to my last year. I suddenly decided to pick my things up and leave for a hill station to visit my friend, one of my relatives were going that way so I decided what the hell, let's do it, called up my friend four hours before new year’s as a surprise, told him to meet me at the mall, and we were off looking for pubs with crowd , but since the bars were overflowing, we decided to make our own new year's party. We got ourselves some bucket chicken and a bottle of hot signature whiskey, picked up needed accessories along the way.
On the way we stopped the car along the road in pitch black darkness, opened up the whiskey and we were merrily singing all the songs that came up. We did try to get out the car but after three pegs down it was a alright to get out in the chilling winter and dance to the songs, and look at the sky with all the shiny stars among it and time comes to a infinite standstill and life seems beautiful. On new year’s eve we were drunk as hell and the cops showed up to spoil our party even as we were being congratulated on our cell phones, so we got in and somehow my friend managed to drive till his home. Then to our embarrassment we had to meet his parents but somehow we managed to compensate on our drunk looks and have dinner. So it was a Happy hic-hic new year.
So the next time you decide to pick things up and go on a random journey, don’t think twice. As for the new year resolutions I have decided to be more in touch with my friends and try to work things out for my future.

MARRIAGE – a wonderful silly ritual

One of my best friends got married last week and everyone seemed so happy at the wonderful celebration, even though the groom had a fit with all the stuff he had to do. Marriage is a social, religious, spiritual, or legal union of individuals, well if you’re from my part of the world you’ll realize that marriage is just a stamp of authority for the girl and boy to live together. Well I reached on time on the day for the song and dance evening , where people from the groom and the bride were introduced, followed by a competition between the girl and boy friend’s which luckily we won because some of the questions were rigged. As for me and my friends who are of the alcoholic nature we found our ways to intoxicate ourselves till the wee hours of the night in a true Brahmin wedding, believe me marriage seem a lot like “made In heaven “ when you’re drunk. Somehow something happens at weddings to older women, they tend to get each bachelor guy fixed up as if he was the next in line , even though I thought my friend was a little young to get married. Even writing a thank you note seems odd since you're bullshitting all your way through but what the hell tit for tat.

The next day the groom had to wake up early for it was a morning wedding, the usual hula-hoot, people perform their ceremonies , congratulate and then speed off to eat .My friend’s wedding was at a prestigious location in a major city , even a famous actor dropped in for a quick snap. Then in the evening was the reception which was kind of the same only the attire of the bride and groom had changed, making me wonder how much budget a wedding costs and how cheap would be my wedding and if it would be? Then the next day it was a private reception for people at a five star hotel , same thing but with alcohol , and by the end of it all the groom and bride were so tired that all they wanted to do was take a week long vacation.